Sometimes, in order to get turned on, you need to turn off your brain.
I can hear you now, 'But you said the brain was the biggest sex organ!'. And it is. But it is also used for all sorts of other things that I will just call 'Life'. Another word for it might be 'Baggage', but we won't get into that now.
Most of us (the unluckly ones, really) lead pretty busy lives. Places to be, people to do... Lots of details, though, that float around in the head. Particularly the left brain part--it likes being in charge, and doesn't like giving up control.
But your right brain is where all the 'feeling' happens. We want to be able to notice every single part of that lick, caress, or plunge, don't we? That's tough to do with uncrossed off todo list items popping into your head.
If this is a real problem for you, don't despair. It does get better with practice.
Everytime an intrusive, unsexy thought appears, don't get mad, just refocus on whatever sensual/sexual thing is happening at the moment (fingering, pounding, kissing). Keep refocusing. Time after time. Your brain will get the hint soon enough.
Happy Fucking!
Kendall
Don't forget to check out Kendall's short fiction blog (yay word porn!):
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