Learn the Art of Massage

Sensual, skin on skin, muscles rubbed, kneaded, need sated, but only to a point.  Massage can lift the weights of the day at its worst and plunge one deep into the sexual need playground at its best. 

Keeping massage innocent can be most difficult when it presents such a tantalizing and short path to sexual ecstasy. 

Use this fact. 

Entice a would be lover or seduce an existing one through massage.  

Happy Rubbing!

Kendall

Make Eye Contact During Sex

Windows to the soul aside, your eyes can be your most powerful seduction tool.  The same way the best actors act with their eyes instead of using words, you, too, can drive your partner to sexual extremes with a look.  It can be withering, desperate, cold, hungry, ecstatic--all of which can push some erotic buttons with your partner.  

Also, keeping eye contact during sex can deepen and strengthen the physical bonding that is occuring.  Don't shy away from it with commitment fears.  Keep it steady and fierce to add intensity to your love making or fucking session.  Resist the urge to close your eyes or retreat inside your head.  Keep your eyes open to give and receive.  You will be happy you did.  

Happy Fucking!

Kendall

Enjoy Fooling Around (*Even without the Big O)

This probably doesn't need to be said for some.  It seems as if this is our natural state when we are young and only some of us grow out of it (or get too busy with the millions of other parts of lives that require our attention).  If it wasn't our natural state, why else would their be 'bases' named, that we could get to, and that most people instinctually understand with little or no explanation.  


Fooling around is thrilling beyond words when it is new and still pretty thrilling even when it is not.  That first touch of the lips and then, oh yes, the tongue.  The natural progression of hands and lips.  The graze of fingers over a sensitive part.  Maybe even full on reaching and feeling rhythmically of that part--but with clothes still on.  These are what I mean by fooling around.


Indulge in this, even if it doesn't result in the huge release to which you have become accustomed.  You might be so surprised at how exciting the journey is that you forget where you were headed. 


Go touch someone.


Kendall

Talk About Fantasies During Sex

Fantasy talk is one of the best ways to spice up an aging sex life or to simply push the boundaries with your new lover.  Whether you act on them is different topic.  But whispering your fantasies to your partner can add that excitement and edge to make the pumping more intense and take your orgasm to a new level. 

Telling your partner your fantasies is a way to let them inside your head while you’re having sex.  After all, the brain is the largest sex organ we all have. 

Happy Fucking!

Kendall

Role Play Spotlight: TEACHER

Many of you have probably already tried this one in real life or at least in your fantasies.  One of the beautiful aspects of this role play character is that there are quite a few different directions you can take it in. 


Obviously, different genders make for different experiences.  And then there is the teacher wanting to 'add' to the pupil's education with a little 'one on one' tutoring action.  Classic! 


Or you could turn it around and have the student use some alone time with the teacher to seduce him or her.  Either from uncontrollable attraction or because the student desperately needs a good grade and will do ANYTHING to get it.  


And, of course, the danger of getting caught (even it is only fictional danger) can heighten the arousal infinitely.  The teacher (or professor) could get fired.  The student could be kicked out.  Y'all really shouldn't be doing this but still do.  


Have fun with this one.  The sex (or not sex if you do an 'everything but' scenario) can be mindblowing.  And this one will keep paying dividends for a long time. 


So, go fuck a teacher. (wink)


Kisses,


Kendall



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Indulge in Word Porn (I'm not biased- I promise)

Seriously, I am not trying to shill some ebooks here.  One of the main reasons I actually got into writing erotica is because of my love of reading it.

It started with the embarrassing purchase one of those off brand little magazines in a gas station.  It had a porn like cover and a couple pics inside but the whole thing was about reading ultra hot stories so you can get ultra hot yourself.

And they worked.

I got amazingly hot and bothered and had a whole new avenue of titillation to explore.

Of course, then I started writing word porn myself and that took my enjoyment to a whole new level--though it is still not as fun as just laying down and reading someone else's.  That is the best.

A great thing about word porn (besides the obvious) is that it is so easy to be discreet with it.  You can read it anywhere on a smart phone and no one will be the wiser.  That's a lot easier than carrying around a paper magazine (with pictures or words) and NOT letting everyone around you know that you are indulging in a little smut.

Not everyone uses it that way-- it can stay in your bed if you like.  Use it as foreplay with your partner, as a way to spice up a slow sex routine, or as a fun way to spend an hour before you go to bed by yourself.

Reading about people having sex is as fun as watching people having sex.

Happy reading!

Kendall

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Give Kisses Often

This may seem like a no-brainer to some.  But then again, maybe it doesn't.  Maybe kisses serve only one function-- as a prelude to something bigger and better sexually.  As an opening gambit, if you will. Don't get me wrong--kisses are most definitely that.  They are the getting-in-your-seat part of the sex roller coaster.  


But they also serve as affection.  And there are many, many people out there (myself included) that need a bit of affection to make the lustiness of sex more fun.  Affectionate kisses act as a sort of counterbalance to all the throbbing, squeezing, plunging, and sweating.  


Kiss unconditionally.  

Kendall

Don't Get Stuck in a Rut

A sex position rut that, that is.  You know how it goes.  You've been in a long term relationship for awhile, or a long while, and the sex becomes rote.  


You might still have a good time.  And the chemistry and/or love is still there.  But the excitement is gone.  You've explored each other's body quite a bit or you have both had a long day and you really just want connection and release without much thinking.  I get that.  I totally do.  But you still need to think about your partner.


You might be thinking that you know the person.  You know how they like it.  But that still doesn't get you off the hook for creating an exciting sexual experience for them.  Boredom is the death of sex lives.  Head this problem off before it is even created by changing things up.  


Don't start in the same position.  Don't finish in the same position.  Do it on the couch or chair instead of the bed.  Or don't wait until you get home after that great dinner or party-- do it in the car.  Or the bathroom at the bar if you are feeling extra adventurous.


There are tons of books devoted to the myriad ways to fornicate, the oldest probably being the kama sutra.  Read one together and try some new positions to see if they do it for you.  (Some will and some won't.)  But always keep trying.  


And don't think this is just for people in relationships--this applies to you single folks, too.  Just because you do it with a different partner each time doesn't mean you shouldn't vary up your routine.  They will feel it if you are working off of a habit instead of being in the moment.  Try new stuff out.  If you are pretty sure you aren't going to see that person again, what have you got to lose? 


Happy fucking!


Kendall

Role Play Spotlight: MAID

This is one of the most common fantasies out there which is both good and bad.  It's good because access to a maid's costume is easy peasy- look online or head to your nearest sex shop.  Or even check out a Halloween store if you have one open year round near you. These costumes are everywhere and they are all of the super-slut variety which makes them super-fun for our purposes. 


The down side is that this may seem stale for you.  If you have already attempted this particular fantasy, kudos to you.  I will have more and more varied role play spotlights coming soon.  


Most things become a cliche for a reason, though.  I mean, what is not to love about an outfit that is lowcut, featuring heaving bosoms, and that has a barely there miniskirt making access to the delectable pussy that much more tantalizing when your maid bends over to dust?  Not to mention the powerplay of the boss having his way with his maid?  Delicious greatness, that one. 


If you are having trouble acting out the roles, feel free to check out my related short story NAKED Housecleaning (Please excuse the shameless self promotion-wait, is it shameless if I asked you to excuse it? Doh!).


Happy fucking, y'all!


Kendall

Embrace the word COCK

Cock.  It is just so bold, so forthright, so in-your-face.  That is the beauty of it.

Penis, dick- these are adequate, but only that.  They don't have the same pizazz, the same energy that CELEBRATES all of the fantabulous features of this indispensable organ.

It is so multi-faceted, serving myriad uses from extreme pleasure to waste management.

Scream it loud and clear for all to hear:  LOVE THE COCK!

Take care of your own or take care of another's.

Kisses,

Kendall


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Turn Off Your Brain

Sometimes, in order to get turned on, you need to turn off your brain.

I can hear you now, 'But you said the brain was the biggest sex organ!'.  And it is.  But it is also used for all sorts of other things that I will just call 'Life'.  Another word for it might be 'Baggage', but we won't get into that now.

Most of us (the unluckly ones, really) lead pretty busy lives.  Places to be, people to do...  Lots of details, though, that float around in the head.  Particularly the left brain part--it likes being in charge, and doesn't like giving up control.

But your right brain is where all the 'feeling' happens.  We want to be able to notice every single part of that lick, caress, or plunge, don't we?  That's tough to do with uncrossed off todo list items popping into your head.

If this is a real problem for you, don't despair.  It does get better with practice.

Everytime an intrusive, unsexy thought appears, don't get mad, just refocus on whatever sensual/sexual thing is happening at the moment (fingering, pounding, kissing).  Keep refocusing.  Time after time.  Your brain will get the hint soon enough.

Happy Fucking!

Kendall


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Explore Your Body

Okay- I feel silly even putting this one out there because, quite frankly, it seems obvious.  But I think that’s just lack of perspective on my part.

I want you to touch, caress, graze, penetrate, tickle, and just plain feel every part of your body.  Not just your fun private parts.  Your neck, nipples, and knee, too. 

Find those place you don’t usually think of as sexual and slowly rub your fingertips over the skin.  Does that do anything for you?  Even just the smallest bit of sensual feeling is good here.  Teach your skin to come alive everywhere.  Then touch those hard to reach places that we don’t get to often enough—those are definitely worth the effort.

Lay naked.  Touch yourself—all over and not just there.  Get to know your body in all its wonderful glory.

Kisses,

Kendall

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The A Spot

For those of you that don't know, there are more erogenous zones than just the world famous G-Spot.  Three more to be exact.  Today we are talking about the A-Spot.  It should be famous, too.  They all should, really.

The A Spot is located deep in the vagina around the four inch mark on the front wall.  The cool thing about the A spot is that it can make a girl cum like that [snapping fingers]--as fast as twenty to thirty seconds.  (Ask me how I know!)

Whether you use fingers or a vibrator (or anything else that is long enough to get back there) I would suggest using lube because this is basically a quick, hard, and deep way to get a girl all hot and bothered and maybe even ready for an extended fucking.

For fingers, stick two fingers in so they bend toward the front wall (the front of the girl) and make a scooping motion.  Rubbing the clit may or may not help depending on the girl.  Some are extra sensitive and it may be too soon for that.

For a vibrator, angle it towards the front wall deep inside. You can either make the motion with the vibrator or just turn the vibrator on.

For me-- I skip all the technique and take a big, fat vibrator and push it all the way in while angled slightly.  I don't even need to move it much, just tiny movements while rubbing my clit.  The orgasm is great and is different than a clitoral or G Spot o.

Enjoy!

Kendall

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Masturbation as Escape

During times of stress, sexual release is as important as ever.  The cascade of healthy chemicals that are released with cumming do wonders to counteract the excess of cortisol and norepinephrine that are coursing through your body during times of high stress. 

Unfortunately (or maybe not so unfortunate, depending on your viewpoint), a sexual partner might not be at hand to help you out—even in the name of health.

In these times of crisis, masturbation is the key.  That release of energy not only scientifically helps you, but it also feels good, too.

So, pick up some lube, a vibrator, and maybe some free online porn to get your juices going. 

And let loose!

Kisses,

Kendall

PS- Please accept my sincerest apologies for the delay in blog postings.  

Have Sex in the Rain

There are many different natural settings in which one should have sex: in a field, on a beach, in a park—wait, does that last one count as natural? But having sex in the rain is easy since it typically doesn’t require much travel (unless you live in the desert).  It is also very sensual: feeling all those drops of water land everywhere along your body; and feeling the heat of sex that contrasts with the cool of the water. 

And, you can go at it a lot harder without getting crazy hot since the rain will cool you down.  Plus, easy mess cleanup!  What's not to love?

Check the weather.  When the rain comes in: get naked and get fucked!

Kisses,

Kendall

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Use Spit, Oil, or Lotion When Jacking Off a Guy (whenever possible)

Guys don’t want skin friction taking away from their hard-on.  This may seem like a no-brainer.  But the little brain inside my head took awhile to catch on.  I didn’t even know about the spit part until I saw it done in a couple of porn videos. 

That slickness while going up and down the shaft will mimic actual sex while giving all the special benefits of a hand job. 

So next time you’re jacking a guy off (whether in public or private) try to add some kind of lube to the mix.

Kisses,

Kendall

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Have Angry Sex

There is something about angry sex—a raw energy that turns it from making love to fucking and back again.  I didn’t used to be a fan of this.  I was too attached to my anger to want to express it in this way. 

Don’t be like me.  Take all the emotion and put it into him or her: bite a nipple, scratch some skin, and most definitely BANG.  Hard, angry fucking is explosive and can take you to new levels of passion and ecstasy.  I know it did for me. 

After that next prolonged, protracted fight, see if instead of hugging it out, you can fuck it out.  You’ll thank me later. 

Happy Fucking!

Kendall Swan

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Use Blindfolds

Nothing concentrates your brain on the sensation of touch like a blindfold. Humans are naturally very visual creatures and this is reinforced with our hours of ‘screen time’ we clock in each day. But we can short circuit that tendency and go on a sensual ride for a few minutes or a few hours by using a blindfold.

And the element of surprise can be amazing. Your partner may be running their finger or tongue down your chest, maybe stopping at a nipple, and then continuing on. Your penis or pussy gets jazzed anticipating what’s coming.

But it doesn’t.

Oh, the tease. They are back at your mouth. Urgent lust grows.

Do you get the picture?

Add a blindfold to your repertoire for tonight and have some sensual fun.

Happy Fucking!

Kendall



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Kegel Muscles: the Sex Workout

“She squeezed his manhood with everything she had, squeezed like she never did before because she wanted him to stay where he was: inside of her.”

Whatcha think?  I thought I would use a little melodramatic humor to illustrate what he Kegel muscle does.  It is the series of muscles around the pelvic floor of a woman.  We use it not just during sex but also when going to the bathroom.  (Yes, for those of you who weren’t aware, the ‘stopping the pee squeeze’ is the same as the ‘penis squeeze’.)

You actually can exercise this muscle so that it becomes stronger and more flexible.  They even have rubber ball and spring-based instruments to measure your Kegel muscle strength.  But I don’t know if all of that is necessary. 

When I got pregnant, my gynecologist suggested I squeeze my Kegels at every stoplight for the duration of the light.  I thought ‘no problem’- but it actually took a bit of effort, at first. 

But those efforts paid off not just when I delivered but before and after when I found I had all kinds of squeezing skills during sex that I didn’t have before.  The extra tone made it more enjoyable for both of us. 

So, ladies, clench and hold at every stoplight for a minute or more for some more intense sex.

Happy clenching!

Kendall

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Workout for Better Sex

Besides the obvious benefits of looking and feeling better (which will likely make you want to have sex more often), there is the benefit of being able to get some heavy breathing action going for a long time (cardio) as well as staying in strange but fun positions for longer (weights). 

So go hit the jogging trail or the irons so you can bump and grind with much more intensity. 

Happy Fucking!

Kendall

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